Friday, July 31, 2009

Mr. A tells Mr. B that Ms. C and Mr. B are compatible. C seems to favor A, and treat B like dirt. What to do?!

A, B, and C are friends. A is the "wingman", he gives B tips on how to become the man of C's dreams. B, however is the "fall guy" he seems to be the butt of all jokes. C is obviously the "asset", without her, there is no fixation, no obsession, no jokes to be made at B's expense. A, B, and C have known each other for a little over a year now but A and C happen to be closer than B and C. Where A and C might want to share a hug, B and C share a moment of getting into a fight. A ends up with a touching moment, and B ends up with a slap in the face, literally! Still, A is convinced that B and C are meant to be together, but B is puzzled. He asks, "...if so, then why do I get slaps in the face and scratches all along my hands and arms?" A replies, "...you both fight and wrestle each other, you're both exactly alike, it's meant to be." The first question for you all to work on is what must B do in order to show C that he is NOT one to be messed with and that she should stop abusing him?

Mr. A tells Mr. B that Ms. C and Mr. B are compatible. C seems to favor A, and treat B like dirt. What to do?!
First, A is NOT the one to speak for C.





She has a mind of her own (as do all human beings). It's for HER to like who she likes.





Second, you don't at all explain why she hits and scratches him. If B is doing something to bring this about, he should knock it off. If she just does it out of the blue, he should avoid her.





B should stop listening to A. A is either messing with him, or simply doesn't know what he's talking about. Either way, clearly, A is wrong to keep encouraging B.





B needs to get over any interest in C.





If both A and C verbally abuse B, B should drop them both.





B can't control what C feels or what she does.





But he can control what HE does. What he should do is find better friends. Neither of these people is truly his friend.
Reply:too complicated for me. you lost me after the 2nd 'A'





you sound like you need to mind your own business. how's life treating you?
Reply:GD seems you are talking about my family at a family reunion !
Reply:I'm sorry it's just a bit confusing %26gt;.%26lt;


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